A fantastic 76 percent of American animal owners feel guilty over leaving dogs alone, according to a recent American Animal Hospitals Association report. Not just that, the report also implies that staff can be too worried about their dog home alone to fully concentrate on the job, which is not great for business.
In some offices the solution has been to permit dogs to commute to work alongside their owners and the report goes on to assert that these employees put out their best performance with pets by their side. Sadly , as attractive as that option may appear, very few office employees are likely to be given that privilege; while for many others it simply wouldn’t be practical.
Why is it so Difficult to Leave Dogs Home Alone?
Many of us are very attached to our dogs, so it’s easy to see why we wouldn’t want to leave them home alone, but all that guilt highlights something more than just missing them. Guilt comes from feeling like we are getting it wrong, so do most dog owners essentially feel that it’s a bad thing to leave a dog alone? And are we presuming that our dogs aren’t happy when we cannot be with them?
Dogs are pack animals and naturally understand they are safer when they are with the rest of the pack, but that doesn’t suggest they cannot spend some time alone without getting stressed or concerned.
Problems Caused by Dog Separation Anxiety
Some dog owners have no issues leaving dogs alone for quite lengthy periods of time and report that they return home to content and relaxed dogs, while others struggle to leave their dogs for even 10 minutes because their pooch suffers with dog separation anxiety.
Separation anxiety in dogs causes all kinds of behaviour issues from barking and whining non-stop, to chewing everything they can get their teeth around, or pooping and urinating in the house. Some dogs can become extremely destructive when experiencing anxiety and their obvious distress can be heart-wrenching when it’s time to leave.
The Best Way to Approach Leaving Dogs Alone
If you’re going to be away all day, make sure you’ve provided for your dog’s basic needs by giving them access to water and to the outside so that they can relieve themselves when necessary. Prepare for neighbours, family or a chum to come in halfway through the day to let them outside if possible.
If you’re anxious about what your dog is intending to do all day, it’s good to bear in mind that a dog can spend as much as 18 hours per day sleeping. Many dog keepers will also leave toys which make their dogs work to get to the treats inside it and can keep them busy for lengthy amounts of time.
The right way to leave your dog and to return is to not make an enormous fuss about it. Pay them no attention in the time leading to your departure and when you return pay them no attention until they relax and leave you alone. This gives them the message that there is nothing significant about your comings and goings and thus nothing for them to stress about.
How to Eliminate Dog Separation Anxiety
If your dog is suffering with separation anxiety, you will need a good dog anxiety training program and a little bit of patience to eliminate it totally. Usually pack leadership is the issue with an anxious dog and you will need to make sure your dog knows that you’re pack leader and they can trust you, before they will relax.
Leaving dogs alone is an individual choice and if you do it the correct way and know that they’re contented and relaxed when you’re gone, there’s no need to feel guilty.
About the Author: Venice Marriott faced anxiety problems with her own rescue dog Sherlock and is now owner of a Dog Anxiety website, where you can get free video training on dog anxiety, and more information on leaving dogs alone when you visit the site.